Developing a Healthier Energy

I grew up thinking that God was behind some judgment table punishing me continually for my bad deeds.  It took a lifetime for me to understand that I was doing all of this myself and creating havoc upon myself, as I stumbled throughout life.   It was not until at about 27 years of age did I begin to search for the truth of it all.  This journey has taken a lifetime for me to completely understand, but if you are willing to spend some time thinking about what I am trying to say, then you too can totally change your life and your surroundings around you.  This is a journey that all of us will eventually take so forgive yourself if this subject tends to bore you,  it must just not be your time..

The God of my understanding gives all of us choice and for this reason alone is one reason why we deal with two energies on earth.   We send out messages to ourselves and others that may or may not be good to do.  All energy does not go anywhere but return to the source who sent it in the first place.  Therefore, positive energy will return as will negative.  Some of us can not tell the difference.  Helping someone else and telling them how to solve their problems may be a negative rather than a positive.  An example of this is a parent doing a child's homework so that he will not fail.  Another example is giving a drug addict money and going on without understanding that he is only buying more drugs.  This is also a negative.  That addict is on the street for a reason, it is up to him to find his pathway to God, and not determined upon your decision to hand over money.   People have not usually been put on the street, but rather made decisions in their lifetime that landed street duty.  This is a form of "time out" to figure what is needed to do next.  Whether this "needy soul" can be helped first depends upon his willingness to want to change his life.  Too often, we run around fixing others so that our ego will feel better.  This is not positive energy.  The lesson is to wait until that person is ready, or better yet, send a prayer via God to help him solve his problem.  Now, that is positive energy.   Also, do not judge why he is in the predicament that he has made......YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT HE HAS BEEN THROUGH.   Therefore, do not judge the behavior.  Silently try blessing him for his journey and allowing him to be. 

Changing the mind is a difficult task as we have adopted many false truths from our parents.  In a peculiar sense of fate, these "truths" actually are some of our spiritual lessons.  Did it ever occur to you that what they, (the parents) did to you, you did to them in a previous lifetime?  Think about this.........I do not know for sure, but it looks that way to me as cycles within families tend to repeat themselves.   Why not try thanking your parents for your life, and your lessons, and get on with the journey of living a better way. 

It took me a long while to realize that the tiny spark of energy within me was from the God source, and if I nurtured this energy with service to others, truth, love, and companionship as well as compassion, I just might turn my little existence around and have a better life.  This is a practice that takes time to develop because on a daily basis, I can revert to the inner child and pick up bad behavior by the load.  This way of life, brings illness to my cellular structure or my body, and harms others.  To change,  start first with your thinking about others and bless them.  Don't feed gossip as you were not there to judge the whole picture.  And certainly understand the solution is up to God now you. 

Soon you will reap a better group of souls around you, better friendships, and a more harmonious lover that actually cares about you.  Have a great day and all of you are blessed. 

Acting on Truth/ Very Difficult

Often, we fight the very idea that we need to do  which is to tell the truth.   In recovery, it was told to all of us that if something made us angry, it was probably the truth.  That was certainly true for me, because early in sobriety, I did not want to look at my part in the mess that was created by me.  Here was an example of my early experience of being honest with myself.......

Early in adulthood, I became interested in the metaphysical world.  Like all new students, I wanted to know everything at once.  This is a mistake on every level as we are not ready to know all that is to be given.  We must earn our place in this craft while walking a very careful path.  Too much information too soon can be dangerous.   Such was true of myself as well.  This did not stop me from attempting to know and I learned a very painful lesson from pushing ahead of my time.

Learning about the metaphysical world takes time, patience, and courage.  To speed up the process is doing a disservice to yourself.  My suggestion here is to take your time.  Learn meditation, put down substance abuse, and find some kind of support group where you are able to find logical support without judgment.  When it is time for you to "know more", then the Universe will  certainly let you know.  Until then, do your homework.  Learn as much as you can with an open mind and observe how all of this written wisdom plays out.   Or as I was told, "Sit in the dark until you see the light, and then you can go forth into the light.

Yes, the ebola virus was one of the predicted plagues.  It is not the only one to arrive there will be more.  Your part in this journey is to learn how to protect yourself and do the best you can do.  Living  within the Aquarian energy is based upon the lesson of truth.  White lies are not permitted here.  Simply state the truth or state I will not tell you.  Quit playing with energy that you no longer understand.  This can be troublesome.  But with proper training it is a gift as all of us are supposed to evolve and become more psychic.  I encourage that you proceed with caution. 

 The God of your understanding is within you to create what you want.  You have that ability to change anything that you wish.  One truth here,  you must watch what  you do to others, you must be careful with you own thoughts, and you must clean up your side of the street from the past mess that was created by you own bad deeds.   I am always here to help with questions if needed.  Just make a comment on the blog and an answer will be given.  Remember, you question might help someone else........

Overcoming My Own Disease

I haven't written much about health.  Or should I say, it was not time to write about health.  I am channeling with all of my post.   Know this, some of my post are better than others.  It is for you to decide because my ego can often get in the way of my writing.  Now, my story on my own illnesses. 

I was a lurching kind of kid.  Always trying the unknown, and always paying the price for it.   Usually, there was nothing that I wouldn't try....As a result, I began to hurt myself accidentally. 

First accident was the attempt of ice skating and floating like Dorothy Hammel on one leg.  This joy ride ended with a torn knee cartilage.  The early price was six weeks on crutches and water therapy.  I was told by a physician that my knees would be weak.   The second accident was a broken leg while holding my infant son on the street.  I fell, threw my son to safety, and broke my leg in three places.  The result was a blood clot to the lungs, a screw in my ankle bone, and a lifetime of weakness to the ankle.   Accidents of this kind continued throughout my life.   The last one was a jar of peanut butter being dropped upon my foot by a family member.  It was several days before I realized the break. 

This break to the foot  was in unison to also dealing with the shingles which is a painful nerve disease.    This was the second time I had shingles.  The first was when I was about 13 years old.   My physician then told me I worried too much.   The gift of learning to heal began to take place with the combination of shingles, the  inability to walk, and added pain from a rotor cuff that would not allow me to move my right arms.    I later decided that it was nerve damage from contracting the shingles both diseases are never related. 

It became apparent to me that my healing with all of this disease was going to have to take time, and I was going to be in charge of the proper decisions about the way I should approach the healing, both spiritually and physically. I began to understand that my ability to heal myself depended upon my willingness to look inside  and reflect upon what the disease was teaching me.   My diseases had brought me to my knees, and yet, the healing of choices were the beginning of a long and rewarding recovery.  I hired a physical therapist, chose a chiropractor that had been recommended to me, and began to swim at least twice a week.   Not to mention meditation and prayer for guidance though out this journey.  It was either I believed I could help body heal itself or not.  This was entirely up to me, but it was my journey, which was to practice what I preach or not.  Throughout my life, I had been told that the body knows how to heal itself.   I was now beginning to learn what I had preached to others.  Either I believed self healing through proper help with my thinking along with lots of prayer and meditation could restore me to health.  It took time.  This was not accomplished over night  no laying of the hands here, but good hard work.......

So, what were the lessons learned?   First and foremost, pay attention and stay in the now.  Multi tasking is another description of doing too much and getting nowhere with accidents approaching.  An example of this that we all do is text while driving.  Dangerous, folks stop this mess.  Second, was either to practice what I believe or not.  I either know that with patience, meditation, and time the body can heal itself.  There is not quick fix.  Most medicines only mask the illness and create side effects that will later appear as other diseases.   Herbs are a better approach when needed.  Third, change the negative thoughts in your mind.  This became a daily practice of mine to remind myself that I was healing, feeling better, and becoming well.  Fourth, work slowly in recovery with physical exercise to strengthen the muscles and improve the physical body, and last, watch what you put into the body.  Is it worth it? Is this food substance nourishing the cellular systems or is it just junk? ( I am still working on this practice by altering what I continue to in jest into my system.  This takes time as well.  

Yes, there are times when instant healing has taken place, but remember that the root cause of all the disease is the mind thinking improperly.   The ET's told me 30 years ago that there will come a time that we do not tell what disease we have so that our friends will not know how crazy we are.  Funny, but true.. Watch what you think and do.   

With time the body will improve with all of these




Here is my story as it unfolded spiritually.....

Early in life, I played upon the weakness to either gain sympathy or escape from having to do something like exercise.  What a power play this was for me.  Now I had a story to tell, and would without a conscious decision gain sympathy from my friends.  I  didn't see this one coming.  My mind began to tell me that I was weak physically and could not do many movements such as climbing stairs, knee bends, ordinary chores.  This was a an early "cake walk" for me.  Then I began to age.    

About the age of 50, I began to struggle with all of these aches and pains. 

Your Attraction Your Lessons

We learn from what we attract.  It took me a long time to understand, completely, that God was not throwing spears my way in the form of punishment.  I was creating my own mess, and it was up to me to clean up this mess, not the God of my understanding.  It took a long time for me to  see this picture clearly, and part of the understanding was having a true look at the parents that I chose before birth. ( Clearly, many of you will not understand this truth, but given a little time consider this as a possibility.)  As always, it is clear to me that God allows me to make mistakes until I make the choice to change.  Then the task of undoing the mess that has been created begins.  That mess may be the people in my life that I cannot change and or the decisions that have put me in difficult places due to bad choices on my part. 

My family of origin was the early teacher, and what a ride for your life it was.    This was the origin of either past life mistakes made by me and my truth about family was they were the means that would have some of my lessons to learn.  I truthfully believe that I have incarnated with these same souls over and over again.  Shirley McLean once said that life is like being a character in a play.  I thought that to be an odd description when I first read it.  I now agree with her.  Sometimes the characters are appearing differently, but they are one and the same.  They remain in our life until the karma has been completed and all the lessons that they bring to us have been completed.  Sometimes the completion is simple spending a lifetime with them or it can be completing the issued that were created by the interaction of all of the group together.  Alcoholism is one good example that came into my life by way of the family.  Some of the characters in the play were the enablers others were the alcoholics.   We were all enmeshed in a web of confusion until it was time to learn the lesson.   For me, I had to stop drinking and using my defects of character in order to grow spiritually. 

There is a prayer in the 12 step work that ask the God of our understanding to help remove me from my defects of character.   I have always been amused when people say that instantly the defects went.  This has certainly not been the case for me.  Rather, all the defects have made themselves present in my world so that I could see them and make the choice to change my actions and my thinking.   Using rage or anger accompanied by tears was once example for me.   I was always the victim, and never looked at what we call my part in the mess.  This was not an easy task, but here I sit writing about it to you the reader.   It takes work, reflection, meditation, dream interpretation and every tool  imaginable to use in order to recognize that which we need to change. 

So where do you go when you seek changes.  Counseling will help, sometimes a reader or psychic can help.  This was true of me.  I knew I had a problem, but I had no where to go.  My first choice was 1800 dial a psychic.  This took some time for me to find help.  But it worked.   Today I was trained many years ago how to give readings.  I do that now and can for all of you if you need the help,  but my goal is to teach you as well how to find your inner voice.  That is my over all mission.  You can find me as Judithhlane @Google.com and request a reading.  This may take time or you can ask me questions on this blog.  I will gladly respond.  The reading has a fee, the questions have no fee.  Take care and have a great day. 

Fear and Chaos of Change

All of us get into some kind of fear.  This is one of the hardest states of mind of change.  At least that has been true of me.  As a child I could spend more time worrying, then resolving whatever it was that I was facing.   I do not think that I am complete with this lesson.   When friends tell me they don't worry, I usually wonder what kind of happy grass they might be  smoking or in jesting.

Living with a program of recovery for the last 24 years, I am happily sober and realize that the most important part of my day is my spiritual journey through life.  The worries do come, but now my tool is to recognize that I am not in control of future events and through prayer and meditation, I can control my thinking to know that "this too, will pass".   This is not an easy accomplishment, but with some kind of support mechanism, you too can work on this problem. 

We are living in a world of change now and moving into the Aquarian Age.  When I was given this message about 30 years ago, I was told that this was the spiritual ride of a lifetime, but that it would be difficult.  The difficulty for me is controlling my thinking, and to not get into a crazy form of fear.  For you that still drink and use, be cautious, as alcohol creates depression and brings on more fear.  So, you could be working yourself into a frenzy over nothing.  Marijuana gives off a false sense of euphoria then gently shuts down your ability for sober reasoning, and literally puts you into a stupor of nothingness.   This is not the spiritual solution to solving your problems, it is creating more of them.  Sort of like a slow death.  

I do not judge this at all.  I too would read at night with a glass of wine and then spin off into crazies with a case of the "what ifs?".   It took me a while to stop this little habit.  I wish all of you luck on your journey with substance abuse. 

About the change for those of your that are interested in self healing, facing fear, and dealing with others.   Read on...... You are left with choice.  As far as your destiny is concerned, you path has pretty much been set, but that being said you choice is what to make of your life, and use the best choices to create a much more  harmonious life for yourself.   Life is a lesson or a series of lessons that begin at birth.  Some of us have had rough rides through childhood, and I learned to accept this hurdle as if it was a spiritual lesson.  My truth is that all of us chose, before birth, this journey, and chose exactly those experiences no matter how horrible to teach us lessons.  Facing all of the nightmares that could or did occur in childhood or the very lessons that we have chosen to "un do" takes time and energy.  If not, then prepare to continue repeating these mistakes over and over again.   

Understanding How to Heal

One of the simplest to understand, and yet one of the hardest to understand is how to heal your self. 

The body knows how to do this, but it is lacking the full cooperation of your mind.  Both are necessary in order to accomplish this task.  Very simple, but very difficult.  For me, it has been a lifetime of understanding, and I will now share with you that which I have learned.  Yes, the body knows how to heal itself, but the mind or your thinking often gets in the way to nudging this along. 

Disease or "dis ease" is simply being out of balance with your body, mind, and spirit.  When this happens in general sometimes it is years before the actual life threatening sickness or disease occurs.  Cancer is one example of what I am talking about. 

Often, we bring into our life the propensity to have a certain disease as the disease itself is actually a lesson of understanding just exactly what we are bringing on ourselves.  In short, it is a lesson that arrives by our own doing to teach us that we are creating our own mess.   Sometimes, it has been a series of lifetimes that we , as souls, have continued to repeat this disease over and over again.   Many cancer patients exhibit problems of control.  Not being happy with their lives or ones that live around them.  They usually  either run around trying to tell others what to do,  how something should work, or exactly how something should not be.  The lesson here is only that God is in control and we are not in charge of others and their actions.  We have choice, and need to be out of every one's business, but our own.   Cancer can be a by product of this kind of narrow mindedness that creates havoc within our own bodies.   I am oversimplifying  this example, but do not think that I am far off here.  As I was once told that when we evolve to a certain level, we will not tell people what disease we have as they will know how sick we are in our minds.   For me,  I believe this fact.

Okay, so first in healing.  Clear the mind with negative thinking.  Your body is a cellular universe with different systems communicating  with each cell that receives instructions from your brain which is like the transformer of the information system to the body.  Negative thinking about yourself sets us a system that turn upon itself and creates disease or disharmony within the body.  Not good folks.   Practice on a daily level whenever you begin to have doubts about your talents and place in the universe to recognize this erroneous thinking and delete these thoughts.   On a daily basis I had a request to the God of my understanding to guide me through this process.  And yes, it does get easier and better with time.  Be patient success will eventually follow.

Second, begin to look at what the disease is teaching you.  Are you learning that you need other people?  Are you learning that you need to improve your thinking about others, and enlisting others aid or help when ask?  Are you truthful?   Do you complete your jobs because it is the right thing to do or because you "have to"?   Do you resent others?   What is your overall attitude of life? 

Third,  remain steadfast.  There is no quick fix.  Healing takes time and a willingness to stay the course.  Often western medicine only mask the symptom and does nothing toward healing the body.  Are you looking for a quick fix or a solution?    Diet, exercise, meditation,  coupled with a good attitude toward others certainly helps and is a daily reminder for us all to not judge others but keep moving toward the path of enlightenment.  

My right arm was paralyzed for about 9 months.  I had to take my own advice and follow this path.  Either I believe in what I say or not.  I am in to my 12th month of recovery.  My arm has 90% recovery.  I swim at least once a week and exercise at the gym twice a week.  Not to mention my daily work outs at home.   Meditation and prayer are with me always.   You can do this as well.   Blessings to all of you!   

What Can You Change?

This is one of the hardest lessons that I have had to learn.  What is my responsibility when it comes to change?  

I was like many of us are, "the armchair quarterback".  Most of us are able to look at the defects of others and offer a  simple solution either in our mind or by giving advice that was not ours to give.  It took many years for me to realize that everything that I attracted was brought to me by my own thinking.  It was all of my anger, rage, that brought people around me with the same stuff.  I could see the defect within them, but was clueless that it was me that also suffered from the same defect.  I was either the victim or the perpetrator with all of it. 

We cannot change others.  Nor can we judge them.  Each of us are on our own spiritual path with our own lessons that will be supplied by the Universe or the God Energy as I sometimes call it.  No, this energy is not a man.  If you think so, then your God is entirely too small.  It is not God in my belief that judges us, it is our own self that sees the truth when we cross over and understand that it is up to us to repair our own damage made by our own mistakes. 

Truly, if we understand that every thought, action, and prayer was answered we would have an entirely different way of dealing with problems.   Instead, we venture through life fixing others, criticizing  others and are only creating karmic damage to ourselves.  We think that if something feels good it is positive energy.  Not necessarily so.  Often when we are solving (so we think), or preventing someone else from having to suffer, we are karmically  creating our own mess and probably sending a negative charge. 

In parenting, I did not want my children to suffer consequences that were not going to be pleasant.  They would come home give me their story, and I would take charge to repair the mess.  Whoa!  This is exactly what many of us do.  First, we were not there when the incident happened.  So, we play god and think we can solve the problem.  Only God can fix the solution because only God has the omnipotent knowledge to resolve the issue.  What should have been done on my part.?   First, try something like the serenity prayer.  Second, listen to all of the facts, and third sit in the dark until the solution is given.   Whoever is involved with whatever happens are only those that can work out the mess.  Not the parent.  So, how do you prevent bad things happening to your children?  Your teach them to become responsible and to tell the truth.  That is your part of a good parent.  You cannot believe what you have not been through.   You explain to your children that their thoughts and actions create their choices through life.   Then you sit back and carefully watch the show of life unfold as they grow up.  As I understand to paraphrase what was in  the book of Proverbs the more your meddle in someone's affairs it is like grabbing a dog by the ears and creating a mess.  So, be my guest here and try something different.  Teach your children that they suffer the consequence of their actions. 


 

Negotiating Your Way Out of Perceived Trouble

Setting rules of negotiating whether is about a work related problem or a romantic problem .  With me I was always "fighting to be right".   I often was in an argument without first realizing what the problem was or how this ever started. 

To begin, before jumping into chaos, first take a breather from the situation.  We call it HALT in recovery.  This simply stand goes like so;" Halt" when troubled and think, stop when you are  "Angry", if depressed first recognize that you could be" Lonely", or last stop getting yourself into "Trouble".  Learning to recognize that you need to halt some of your behaviors and first think is often a good suggestion here.   I usually carried my emotions like a invisible bag of rocks never realizing  that I was dragging this bag of rocks around until I usually became either, hungry, angry, lonely, or tired.  When this happened the emotional bag or rocks would explode and my family would run for cover or escape by leaving the house altogether.    Halting taught me to stop and think about what was bothering me before  I reacted in usually, a childish manner.  I had good reason for my anger, but the behavioral problem created by the invisible sack of rocks disabled my ability to address the problem properly and therefore solve or resolve the issue.  This is not the same thing as winning.  There is a huge difference here.  What is it then?  Allowing yourself to express your feelings without being in a crazy emotional stage or either anger turned to rage or self pity and just plain stupidity. It is not negative energy to be angry.  Anger turns negative when it is either improperly used or the anger turns into a rage which becomes toxic.   Anger is the emotional nudge telling you that something needs to be addressed.  Often these are minor situations, but here lies the problem:  what are you protecting to keep the peace at any cost?   Is it the perceived reward of sex?  Or perhaps living with a partner who in fact uses rage to get what they want? Or being afraid of losing the relationship by revealing who you are and fearing the loss of a love (that was probably not there from the very start).

When dating or even securing a new job position.  How many times to you deny problems about the relationship that you see could be forthcoming, but have not yet been revealed?   For many of us, upon  reflection of either a failed relationship or a  work related job failure we will always admit that we saw the problems early in the beginning stages.  We all admit that we knew, but all of us did not address the fear factor.  How different would the relationship be if some of these questions were ask.  Perhaps the relationship would have taken a different course.  But without asking why are you repeating the same thing over and over again and expecting different results?   Again, choose to make better decisions and face the fear of asking first rather than finding out later. 

Choices - Chaos or Serenity / A New Beginning

 I have been writing these articles for about 3 years.   I am going to put some examples together to help you understand that what and how you think creates your own life.  There is no man in the sky throwing "spears" at you for your lifestyle.  Who is it then?   It is you, yourself, your own energy that creates this mess we call life, and until you learn the basic simple spiritual solutions you will continue down this path until you make the change.   God is not a man, but a Universal Energy I call love.  There are guides to use in keeping within the laws of the Universe that will enable all of us to live a much more harmonious life. 

On  waking, daily minute by minute, you are sending out thoughts that are creating the agenda for your day that is forthcoming.   Some of your old thinking will also join you on this daily journal.   You are creating the karmic energy of sending out into the Universe a series of both positive and negative thinking that  impacts your health as well as  your happiness while you go through this life.  Think of yourself as a human being  using  your own transformer (the brain) that receives and sends signals throughout the Universe on a daily vigil. This reception of sending and receiving thoughts goes and returns to you as long as you send the same stuff.    Your choice is to learn how to manipulate your life so that it is a joyful experience.  By using the laws of the Universe, this journey  will continue to remain the same until we understand that changing how we treat others, live in truth, work with positive energy rather than negative will result in a better way of life.  We are all on our own pathway and the only one that we can change in our self.    Some of us choose not to learn for a while and as a result the pathway can become stagnant and stale.  These are not punishments by God, but energy that is needed to learn in order to grow and go forward.  So take your pick.  Learn from the lessons of life, make better choices, and allow your self to grow spiritually by changing the way you think about yourself as well as others. 

Teachers are here no upon earth to help you guide yourself through this little spiritual lesson, but my friends until you have the desire to change you will continue within the same lifestyle of mess until you become responsible for your own thoughts and actions.   This is easy for me to teach, but believe me this is a very difficult path to attempt to take.  We have all become victims, and often there is the pay off for choosing to remain the "victim".   It certainly validates your own personal story doesn't it?

When you lie you attract other liars or receive lies.  When you are dishonest with yourself and others you attract with those people that use dishonesty as a method of their success.  Abusive people run with others that abuse and find the victim as easily as being blindfolded.  Why all this mess?  It is because all of you that use the talent of negative energy will attract it in one form or another.  Instead of saying to yourself, "I will try to do better".  Take the word try out of the sentence and change your behavior.  Try is just another excuse to allow you to fail.  This little three letter word is poison for the do gooder.   Stop attempting and change your behavior.  Try by asking God to help you see these defects of characters.   You will see them alright, but your job will be to recognize these defects and stop.  This may take counseling of some kind or a support group.  But when you alter you mind here, you will alter your life.  What are you waiting for?

Yes, the planet is changing.  The climate will become warmer, the current foundations  of laws created by man will change.  For a while there will be chaos, but man will survive and learn to live together in peace and harmony.  So, my challenge to you is to begin to practice this principle of truth in accepting others as they are and learning to stop the war from within and change the planet peacefully. 

 

Your Life Lessons

The journey of life is not meant to be without growing pains.  Most of  us learned about life when some form of discomfort was involved.  School is one of the best examples of universal school.  We grew  up learning about peer pressure, group acceptance, rules of discipline, methods of study, and I can go on and on with examples, but you get the point.  Some of us  picked  wiser choices and learned to follow instructions, but most of us looked for the easier way out.  There is no easy way out for spiritual growth, and yes, there are some choices that are better than other choices.  It is up to us to decide.  The more that we are aware, and by that I mean spiritual awareness, the better our choices are likely to be, but I am in no way implying easier.  Spiritual growth is a difficult path because for the most of us, it is going against the grain.  Sometimes I say "thinking outside of the box". 

 None of us like authority, like erroneous rules, and rebel if....we can get away with it.  Truth is,  We get away with nothing.  Your actions either good or bad will come back to you  and repeat themselves until you learn from the lesson of life  which is what life is all about, learning.  If something is true on one level, it is true on all levels.  That spiritual law is thus:  As above so below, as below so above.   Here is the law of karma which applies for every action there is an equally opposing reaction.  Or put simply what you sew you reap.  I hear daily, "what goes around comes around".  But easily said by many and not believed by many.  If we truly understood this truth than we would understand clearly that what we believe and say is repeated within our own living experiences.  We are creating all that we think and do.  Wouldn't it be a wonderful world if all of us understood that principle?  Unfortunately that is not always how the Universe functions because many of us on earth and young souls might be ready for this kind of message.  For those of you that resonate with this message you will understand what I am trying to say.  Test me here.  When you lose something focus upon finding this thing or object then forget about it.  Watch how it eventually returns to you in a surprising way.   Or,  while driving focus on finding the perfect parking place for your car.  Do not doubt your thoughts and watch the space appear in front of your own eyes upon arrival.  This happens all of the time.  The more you learn to control your thoughts and actions, the better your life will become.  The more you allow others to have their own path without you sticking your foot in the middle of this path, the better off they will be as well as you.  Each of us learn at out own pace.  Each of us has our own path and set of beliefs, and it is paramount that all of us allow each of us to grow at our own pace.

Do not be critical of your past as no matter how difficult the journey has been, it was all in the form of a spiritual lesson for you to learn.  Even those souls that are sitting presently in jail are in what I sometimes call  God's "time out box".   Your choice after  incarceration is to either learn for the better or recreate the same experience and do this time again and again, until the lesson is learned.  Remember, there is no time in the Universe.  So take all the time you might need to learn a lesson. 

Understanding Cycles and Making A Choice

As I am a decorator by trade, I am often invited into people's home in order to help them with room arrangement.   Without the intention my psychic side always kicks in and within short time, I know how this client lives in his home.   I use the," don't tell if not ask, first," rule with all information that comes to me.  Why?  because sometimes the client does not want to know or , the client is  not ready to know.  Information about people  should always be regarded as a privacy issue.  I am not using any one source here to divulge any information that would not be helpful.  But you, the reader might be ready for some understanding of  this information and it might help you through your own journey through life. 

To begin with a dirty home is in of itself bad energy.  Either from the standpoint of creating disease from bacteria infection, or disease from emotional  infection with spreads within the entire family.  Hoarding is such a disease in its extreme of "dirty" home.   Usually the hoarder itself has come through some trauma and is not able to let go of the stuff as it represents a memory or situation of some kind.  And the family surrounding the hoarder is into what we call enabling or, to you that doesn't understand, it is keeping the peace at all cost.    It is always amusing to me that some of these dirty clients often call me in for the "feng shui" reason.   Feng Shui directs the energy.  When the house is dirty it is too confusing and both energies fight one another.   

I read using spiritual law.  The previous paragraph is example of knowing the answer with spiritual law here.  This law is "As Above, So Below ".  To  define this law, it simply means that if something is true it will be true on every level, and the same goes if it is false.    Applying the answer to a dirty house refers to cleaning up the mess not only on the outside, but also on the inside.   This  sickness is emotional imbalance as well.  Everything needs to clean up.  The physical body, the mind, the soul, and yes even the house.   Usually these souls are living within a state of confusion and have created chaos all around and certainly within themselves.  Often they can't make clear cut decisions without first asking everyone around either their opinion or solution.  Frequently, the children have no direction either and so here begins the cycle....these children with either swing into the opposite direction of a "clean freak" or become another repeat of the same thing.  Very rarely without therapy will this disorder balance out.  Often the children resort to the extreme opposite,  that is they become clean freaks.

Another cycle of confusion is abuse.  We are rampant with abuse now.   Children can grow up with abuse and will likely repeat this cycle either by becoming the abuser or  attracting the abuser.  Again, another spiritual law with prediction.   The lesson will always find you with the law of attraction.  Opposites attract, like repeals, but always on the same polar wave length.  What I am saying is simply for every crooked pot there is a lid to fit.  So the crook will attract to his prey, the sex addiction will find someone to enjoy, and a thief will locate a cop to be caught.  This is done by attraction, because attraction is a law that applies to us all, and until we get it, we will stumble around thinking that God is doing "this" to us.  No, we are doing this to ourselves.   Yes, there is a God, but no, he does not whip us into shape.   The way we think and act creates a daily karmic energy.  Learning to control your thoughts will creates better energy as well as totally change your life.  We hold within our body the karmic DNA of past life experiences as well as beliefs, and often we bring into a new life the patterns of old thinking that will re create disease that possibly killed us from a past life.   Karma is  a spiritual law but  remember it is up to us to change our lives and also our way of  thinking.    Attraction is brought on by both our actions, and our  present thinking. We attract by our own spiritual sonar. (This is the auric energy at work.)  This thought process   creates for all of us us what we need in  order to spiritually  learn.
  Children  that  are  left  at home   without parental control can  become some  sick .   When left without proper guidance,  and entertaining themselves   with,"  killing videos ,  war games, and  exposing them to prescription drugs,  give  these children an opportunity to do great harm not only to themselves but to others.  Who is responsible for all of this mayhem?  Perhaps some of the  responsibility belongs to those who were in charge, or perhaps society as a whole.    Listen to our music, our movies, our videos and remember another universal law here," a thought is a thing".   What is happening?  We are not paying attention at all. 










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Change your Vibration and Change your Life

At some point in our lives we come to the question that we have to change in order to move forward.  This too happened to me and actually as you read this it is continuing to happen now.  I am working on the skill of automatic writing and for a while my writing will perhaps be a little jumpy.  Sorry for that, but the purpose here is to also show you that I too have to work with " change" or else I too can get "stuck in the mud" so to speak.

As humans we often continue doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results.  How do you stop it?  You learn to change your vibration.  This is a simple solution, but a difficult task to accomplish as all of us do not like to be told what to do.  We go around daily hearing advice from others, needed or not, and adopting our own way.  I will not falter here,,, you must change your vibration with whom you are attracting in order to change the outcome. 

Here is your  exercise about discovering those  attracted to you.  Write down four or five things you didn't like about your parents.  They may be adopted parents, guardians, foster, or same sex.  This doesn't matter write it down.  Then with other  relationships  souls that  give you  trouble. write down what it is about these people or lovers that  bothers you. 

Guess what?  This is a spiritual gift from me to you.  You are attracting all of those vibrations that you do not like because you are learning what to do with them. These irritating souls are teaching you about your self.  For example, suppose you are attracting abusive men either emotionally or physically.  You will continue to attract more until you change this attraction.   Every activity that you do not like in someone else is your problem to change within your own self.   It is up to you to learn to  create better  choices.  How can you change until you know what you attract?

For me, I was always selecting relationships that set on a path of fixing me.  By the time I was through the relationship I was dancing to someone  wish and not knowing what I had become.  They certainly didn't like me anymore, and I didn't like myself.    How did I do it?  I stopped the game, and left the relationship.  I was told many years ago by my teachers (guides) that people knew when it was time to change jobs, but they stuck like glue when it came to a relationship.  This was true of me as well.

My intention here it to help give advice according to spiritual laws.  These laws appear in all of the spiritual writings, but they all say basically the same thing.  My suggestions will  perhaps cause food for thought.  Take it or leave it, but certainly enjoy your own path.  I am busy walking mine for the day.....Judy 

Parenting with Metaphysical Truths or Creating Havoc of Things to Come

We are creating a mess with our work ethic, and this trickles down to a mess with our children.  Our most important endeavor is sustaining life.   What I am saying is that we have now focused upon money and have created a horrible mess with our children's development.  No one is home!  If we have chosen to have children some one needs to be at home and that "one" needs to be one of the parents.   Historically it has been the mother figure.  Look at nature from birds to lower animals in this habitat we call  " earth".   By tradition,  this job was the   mother who was the main role model. She  taught the art of survival and we all modeled from behavior these skills.   We have turned this skill over to baby sitting services, nannies, grandmothers and even the cell phone for entertainment.  What are we doing here folks?  Either have children or do not, but do not mess with the future.  This is perilous.   Using cameras and video equipment  to watch the ones at home sends chills down my spine.  This sounds like a biology class with laboratory rats.  Not good here.   However, I helped set this up as well.  Many times when ask what I did in the way of work, my response was, "I am just a housewife".   We had no value on the most important skill of all.  Why?  We were not compensated for this service so it had no value.  Metaphysically we call this the energy exchange.  Unfortunately men as well as women had no value and therefore thought nothing of housework and raising children.  Well how do you like it now?  We have a mess on our hands with many young souls, and we haven't a clue.  We were not there to model behavior skills because no one was in the home.   I am a decorator also by trade and degree.  When called by young couples I usually walk into a very expensive home with nothing in it and litter everywhere.  No one knows how to live in a house because no one is at home.   I am often ask to use Feng Shui for creating good energy.  My response is to first reply by saying you need to  clean up the mess.   We are becoming clueless with "home".   This will get worse before it gets better. 

Here is my truth.   Over a period of time mothers began to leave the house work and join the job market.  It is true that the double income took an easy jolt out of the finances, but unknown to us all we were not paying attention to the most important asset of all.....our children.  It happened over time and it happened over two or three generations, but it is now revealing to me that we are in a bad spot with the child and his development.  I realize that both parents have to, at times, work; but I am also looking at this from the eyes of a child, and the effects upon the family.  Not to mention that reincarnation is screaming for leadership because no one wants to come back without guidance.  There is no guidance for the latch key child.   The most important spiritual mission is to insure that we create a balanced child, spiritually, emotionally, and physically so that....guess what?  We can return and improve our journey or path in order to grow spiritually.  Folks we are headed for the cave again.   Many of us will incarnate into the mess that they created, and I for one do not care to re live this confusion.  No thanks.  Forward is better than backwards here. 

First is the fear of everything.  What happened to when you get home from school, with the concept of " go out and play" ?  This is not in the mind  set of our children.  They do not have any form of unorganized play in their mind set.  Rather, it is baseball practice, cheer leading, some sport that leads to a scholarship or a giant plaque or trophy.  Nothing like "capture the flag" or "kick the can".   This disappeared when the "strangers" entered our lives and lurched ready to capture a child.   So play became the video, the I pad, or some electronic device that teaches them how to kill everything in sight with no telling what kind of weapons of horror.  There are few children in the neighborhood learning how to interact with one another, get along.  We have all locked every child up so that he is now safe from harm.  The video is teaching them how to skill and mangle as we speak.  Just look at the video  games. 

Without having parents at home to observe they are left with the alternative role models to teach by their actions not their words.  Who are these role models?  Let's look at  (1) the movies (2) video games (3) nannies or baby sitting services,  (4) the family itself  What have we done?

Change vs. Truth

We all seem to hedge when telling the truth simply because we are afraid of making someone mad.  Of course, I am talking about truth as we know it  or truth that we practice.  Being truthful in looking at what we witness is often  very difficult  for all of us.  This  includes me as well.   However, the sooner all of us "bite the bullet" and confess being truthful, the pathway to spirituality begins to widen for us all. 

In 12 step work in which I participate, we are often told that when someone mentions something to us that produces anger, it is often the truth.  Human nature seems to want us to stay in the dark and deny those truths that we all do not wish to address.  Again, putting our "big boy pants on" and looking at what is creating anger kicks us slowly into a new reality of removing denial.  This is, for all of us a form of spiritual awakening.  Because the simple truth is that we will continue to repeat out mistakes until we learn to clean our own spiritual "house".   This simple change has opened my eyes into life and changed my whole outlook with not only others, but also myself.   To no longer harbor resentments that indeed create a form of disease is a certain promise of good health both physically, mentally, and spiritually. 

Working on the concept of boundaries such as addressing future problems up front with either a business partner or friend or lover  prevents a world of remedies rather than heart breaks.  This lesson for me, was an attempt at hurdling over future problems when discussing  new business ventures in order to prevent  possible problems.  Many times, I would tell myself that Id discuss that when it occurred.  But truthfully, I was by passing the discussion because I did not want to create discord that could lead to failure with this partnership.  We all do this game, but spiritually we will learn to address those issues that may be possible problems up front and proceed with  resolutions for both parties.  For Example, dividing money among business associates can get nasty and vicious, but usually it need not happen.  Once the "golden egg" has landed every one has a short term memory of how to divide the "pie".  Do I know what the outcome of this looks like.  Preventing future problems by truthful solutions early on prevents much hurt in the long run.  

Be Willing Make Better Choices

Being willing to be willing is one of the hardest concepts to recognize when I was working on change.   Of course the change that I am referring to is "spiritual change".   We can  become entangled within our own web of truths which sometimes are not true, but myths that live within our own reality.  Awakening to the truth and being able to recognize the "false truth" is not always easy.  I suggest at first you become willing to be willing to change and ask in your daily prayers that your guides give you some direction here.   Following is my example of my journey when dealing with falsehoods about myself and after quite a few years seizing the "bull by the horns" learning to make the choice to change my own behavior of erroneous behaviors that led to ill health. 

So, when I was about 13 years of age I injured my knee while ice skating.  Of course I was attempting that which I had no business doing, but isn't that always typical kid?   I was left with a torn ligament  and forced to be on crutches for about 8 weeks.  All went well, but I ignored the physical therapy part of the equation and like all teen agers used the excuse to get out of physical education at school to not exercise.  It worked and I used that little excuse for 50 some odd years.  I was even convinced that my knees were permanently damaged.  Then all "hell" broke loose with my health starting with an innocent jar of peanut butter landing on my right foot and breaking a bone.  Next was what is called the rotation cuff and using my right arm was impossible.   I begin to fret, and finally turned to prayer for guidance.  I was not going to use the medical profession as surgery for me can be dangerous at best and always not the best solution.  Not to mention that the whole insurance game in the United States is crazy at best.   So, I begin the search for chiropractic help.  Then the message came along with a great chiropractor that physical exercise would or could help the arm.   Not to mention that use of my legs was in such decline that I was unable to lift my body out of a simple chair.  This was a gloomy time for me.......But the awakening bells went off and I realized that this little lady here needed physical therapy and exercise in the worst way.   I could no longer face the falsehood that this was just the way it was,  I knew that the body could heal itself and I had ignored all of the signs.

I have recovered about 75% of the use of my arm and equally the pain has diminished about equally as well.  I can go sometimes all day without focusing on the pain.   I am amazed how my denial and the false "truth" that remained hung around me until I was ready.  This concept of false truth can remain with us for a lifetime until we are ready to make better choices.  Prayer plays an important part with all of this "mud bog" of denial.  When we ask for help it is always there and ready to serve us well.  Our spirit guides and yes we all have them are always around to assist us and keep us moving forward within the spiritual cycle of life.  To deny this "truth" that I use is possibly the biggest mistake that we all make.  We believe that "we" are the only beings and are totally alone in life.  Yes, we are alone, but think about it.......your spirit "guides" are always there for the asking.