We are creating a mess with our work ethic, and this trickles down to a mess with our children. Our most important endeavor is sustaining life. What I am saying is that we have now focused upon money and have created a horrible mess with our children's development. No one is home! If we have chosen to have children some one needs to be at home and that "one" needs to be one of the parents. Historically it has been the mother figure. Look at nature from birds to lower animals in this habitat we call " earth". By tradition, this job was the mother who was the main role model. She taught the art of survival and we all modeled from behavior these skills. We have turned this skill over to baby sitting services, nannies, grandmothers and even the cell phone for entertainment. What are we doing here folks? Either have children or do not, but do not mess with the future. This is perilous. Using cameras and video equipment to watch the ones at home sends chills down my spine. This sounds like a biology class with laboratory rats. Not good here. However, I helped set this up as well. Many times when ask what I did in the way of work, my response was, "I am just a housewife". We had no value on the most important skill of all. Why? We were not compensated for this service so it had no value. Metaphysically we call this the energy exchange. Unfortunately men as well as women had no value and therefore thought nothing of housework and raising children. Well how do you like it now? We have a mess on our hands with many young souls, and we haven't a clue. We were not there to model behavior skills because no one was in the home. I am a decorator also by trade and degree. When called by young couples I usually walk into a very expensive home with nothing in it and litter everywhere. No one knows how to live in a house because no one is at home. I am often ask to use Feng Shui for creating good energy. My response is to first reply by saying you need to clean up the mess. We are becoming clueless with "home". This will get worse before it gets better.
Here is my truth. Over a period of time mothers began to leave the house work and join the job market. It is true that the double income took an easy jolt out of the finances, but unknown to us all we were not paying attention to the most important asset of all.....our children. It happened over time and it happened over two or three generations, but it is now revealing to me that we are in a bad spot with the child and his development. I realize that both parents have to, at times, work; but I am also looking at this from the eyes of a child, and the effects upon the family. Not to mention that reincarnation is screaming for leadership because no one wants to come back without guidance. There is no guidance for the latch key child. The most important spiritual mission is to insure that we create a balanced child, spiritually, emotionally, and physically so that....guess what? We can return and improve our journey or path in order to grow spiritually. Folks we are headed for the cave again. Many of us will incarnate into the mess that they created, and I for one do not care to re live this confusion. No thanks. Forward is better than backwards here.
First is the fear of everything. What happened to when you get home from school, with the concept of " go out and play" ? This is not in the mind set of our children. They do not have any form of unorganized play in their mind set. Rather, it is baseball practice, cheer leading, some sport that leads to a scholarship or a giant plaque or trophy. Nothing like "capture the flag" or "kick the can". This disappeared when the "strangers" entered our lives and lurched ready to capture a child. So play became the video, the I pad, or some electronic device that teaches them how to kill everything in sight with no telling what kind of weapons of horror. There are few children in the neighborhood learning how to interact with one another, get along. We have all locked every child up so that he is now safe from harm. The video is teaching them how to skill and mangle as we speak. Just look at the video games.
Without having parents at home to observe they are left with the alternative role models to teach by their actions not their words. Who are these role models? Let's look at (1) the movies (2) video games (3) nannies or baby sitting services, (4) the family itself What have we done?
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