Our lessons begin at birth although the awareness of this truth may not come for many lifetimes. It is important to understand clearly that you chose your birth order and all of the calamity that comes with your choices.
While some of us had degrees of better or healthier lessons; understand, that it was not an accident. These souls have just learned to focus on their journey in some other lifetime and have made a little progress with better choices. This fact does not make these souls better, but just points out that all of us have our own set of lessons to learn, and some of us may have been better with choices. They may appear to look as if their journey is easy, but remember also, you are not exposed to all of their journey. To put it bluntly, you have not seen the entire picture. You just might prefer your life to theirs if you knew the complete story here.
To put it another way, you cannot change what you do not see for yourself. Are you the victim? Do bad things just happen to you? Has it ever occurred to you that you are causing your own set of circumstances? Bingo!!! Stopping bad behaviors or bad choices first by admitting or owning the fact that you have created this. Bad choices make for harmful lifestyles. Learning to look for the cause is easy, but this requires patience and practice. Here are some suggestions. Reflect back on the times that you have refused to stop something because you thought that this "something" could be overlooked. It would go away, it would not happen with this "particular" situation. My answer to these self awareness premonitions is probably that they have been correct. Your intuitive thought was the better choice. All of us have been given the spiritual guidance to know that we were making a bad choice. We were simply refusing to change the choice because we wanted either the Money, the Man, the Job, or the Place to Live. These were your red flag moments that all of us and you have chosen to ignore. When changing, learn to step back think for a minute and listen to your inner intuitive feelings. This can be hard particularly when it is a job that is being offered with lots of false promises that you think you can fix or overlook. Turn it down or learn to ask the right questions and make a better decision based on your own investigation of the subject. This is not about learning to "talk the talk", but you must now learn to "walk the walk".
For me, I was always dating the wrong kind of souls. This did not make them evil, but, looking back at the problem it was mine because 1. I did not ask enough questions 2. Take time in getting to know these souls, 3. refusing to see what I was looking at.
In accepting a job wouldn't it be advisable when you hear of a problem to ask the prospective "boss" how he/she would handle a certain situation? Seems that might prevent some painful moments down the line of life.
Making little insignificant decisions to do impact how a job/relationship will work. This is better than just jumping off an emotional cliff. Hitting the bottom is not so much fun.
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