Understanding Cycles and Making A Choice

As I am a decorator by trade, I am often invited into people's home in order to help them with room arrangement.   Without the intention my psychic side always kicks in and within short time, I know how this client lives in his home.   I use the," don't tell if not ask, first," rule with all information that comes to me.  Why?  because sometimes the client does not want to know or , the client is  not ready to know.  Information about people  should always be regarded as a privacy issue.  I am not using any one source here to divulge any information that would not be helpful.  But you, the reader might be ready for some understanding of  this information and it might help you through your own journey through life. 

To begin with a dirty home is in of itself bad energy.  Either from the standpoint of creating disease from bacteria infection, or disease from emotional  infection with spreads within the entire family.  Hoarding is such a disease in its extreme of "dirty" home.   Usually the hoarder itself has come through some trauma and is not able to let go of the stuff as it represents a memory or situation of some kind.  And the family surrounding the hoarder is into what we call enabling or, to you that doesn't understand, it is keeping the peace at all cost.    It is always amusing to me that some of these dirty clients often call me in for the "feng shui" reason.   Feng Shui directs the energy.  When the house is dirty it is too confusing and both energies fight one another.   

I read using spiritual law.  The previous paragraph is example of knowing the answer with spiritual law here.  This law is "As Above, So Below ".  To  define this law, it simply means that if something is true it will be true on every level, and the same goes if it is false.    Applying the answer to a dirty house refers to cleaning up the mess not only on the outside, but also on the inside.   This  sickness is emotional imbalance as well.  Everything needs to clean up.  The physical body, the mind, the soul, and yes even the house.   Usually these souls are living within a state of confusion and have created chaos all around and certainly within themselves.  Often they can't make clear cut decisions without first asking everyone around either their opinion or solution.  Frequently, the children have no direction either and so here begins the cycle....these children with either swing into the opposite direction of a "clean freak" or become another repeat of the same thing.  Very rarely without therapy will this disorder balance out.  Often the children resort to the extreme opposite,  that is they become clean freaks.

Another cycle of confusion is abuse.  We are rampant with abuse now.   Children can grow up with abuse and will likely repeat this cycle either by becoming the abuser or  attracting the abuser.  Again, another spiritual law with prediction.   The lesson will always find you with the law of attraction.  Opposites attract, like repeals, but always on the same polar wave length.  What I am saying is simply for every crooked pot there is a lid to fit.  So the crook will attract to his prey, the sex addiction will find someone to enjoy, and a thief will locate a cop to be caught.  This is done by attraction, because attraction is a law that applies to us all, and until we get it, we will stumble around thinking that God is doing "this" to us.  No, we are doing this to ourselves.   Yes, there is a God, but no, he does not whip us into shape.   The way we think and act creates a daily karmic energy.  Learning to control your thoughts will creates better energy as well as totally change your life.  We hold within our body the karmic DNA of past life experiences as well as beliefs, and often we bring into a new life the patterns of old thinking that will re create disease that possibly killed us from a past life.   Karma is  a spiritual law but  remember it is up to us to change our lives and also our way of  thinking.    Attraction is brought on by both our actions, and our  present thinking. We attract by our own spiritual sonar. (This is the auric energy at work.)  This thought process   creates for all of us us what we need in  order to spiritually  learn.
  Children  that  are  left  at home   without parental control can  become some  sick .   When left without proper guidance,  and entertaining themselves   with,"  killing videos ,  war games, and  exposing them to prescription drugs,  give  these children an opportunity to do great harm not only to themselves but to others.  Who is responsible for all of this mayhem?  Perhaps some of the  responsibility belongs to those who were in charge, or perhaps society as a whole.    Listen to our music, our movies, our videos and remember another universal law here," a thought is a thing".   What is happening?  We are not paying attention at all. 










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Change your Vibration and Change your Life

At some point in our lives we come to the question that we have to change in order to move forward.  This too happened to me and actually as you read this it is continuing to happen now.  I am working on the skill of automatic writing and for a while my writing will perhaps be a little jumpy.  Sorry for that, but the purpose here is to also show you that I too have to work with " change" or else I too can get "stuck in the mud" so to speak.

As humans we often continue doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results.  How do you stop it?  You learn to change your vibration.  This is a simple solution, but a difficult task to accomplish as all of us do not like to be told what to do.  We go around daily hearing advice from others, needed or not, and adopting our own way.  I will not falter here,,, you must change your vibration with whom you are attracting in order to change the outcome. 

Here is your  exercise about discovering those  attracted to you.  Write down four or five things you didn't like about your parents.  They may be adopted parents, guardians, foster, or same sex.  This doesn't matter write it down.  Then with other  relationships  souls that  give you  trouble. write down what it is about these people or lovers that  bothers you. 

Guess what?  This is a spiritual gift from me to you.  You are attracting all of those vibrations that you do not like because you are learning what to do with them. These irritating souls are teaching you about your self.  For example, suppose you are attracting abusive men either emotionally or physically.  You will continue to attract more until you change this attraction.   Every activity that you do not like in someone else is your problem to change within your own self.   It is up to you to learn to  create better  choices.  How can you change until you know what you attract?

For me, I was always selecting relationships that set on a path of fixing me.  By the time I was through the relationship I was dancing to someone  wish and not knowing what I had become.  They certainly didn't like me anymore, and I didn't like myself.    How did I do it?  I stopped the game, and left the relationship.  I was told many years ago by my teachers (guides) that people knew when it was time to change jobs, but they stuck like glue when it came to a relationship.  This was true of me as well.

My intention here it to help give advice according to spiritual laws.  These laws appear in all of the spiritual writings, but they all say basically the same thing.  My suggestions will  perhaps cause food for thought.  Take it or leave it, but certainly enjoy your own path.  I am busy walking mine for the day.....Judy 

Parenting with Metaphysical Truths or Creating Havoc of Things to Come

We are creating a mess with our work ethic, and this trickles down to a mess with our children.  Our most important endeavor is sustaining life.   What I am saying is that we have now focused upon money and have created a horrible mess with our children's development.  No one is home!  If we have chosen to have children some one needs to be at home and that "one" needs to be one of the parents.   Historically it has been the mother figure.  Look at nature from birds to lower animals in this habitat we call  " earth".   By tradition,  this job was the   mother who was the main role model. She  taught the art of survival and we all modeled from behavior these skills.   We have turned this skill over to baby sitting services, nannies, grandmothers and even the cell phone for entertainment.  What are we doing here folks?  Either have children or do not, but do not mess with the future.  This is perilous.   Using cameras and video equipment  to watch the ones at home sends chills down my spine.  This sounds like a biology class with laboratory rats.  Not good here.   However, I helped set this up as well.  Many times when ask what I did in the way of work, my response was, "I am just a housewife".   We had no value on the most important skill of all.  Why?  We were not compensated for this service so it had no value.  Metaphysically we call this the energy exchange.  Unfortunately men as well as women had no value and therefore thought nothing of housework and raising children.  Well how do you like it now?  We have a mess on our hands with many young souls, and we haven't a clue.  We were not there to model behavior skills because no one was in the home.   I am a decorator also by trade and degree.  When called by young couples I usually walk into a very expensive home with nothing in it and litter everywhere.  No one knows how to live in a house because no one is at home.   I am often ask to use Feng Shui for creating good energy.  My response is to first reply by saying you need to  clean up the mess.   We are becoming clueless with "home".   This will get worse before it gets better. 

Here is my truth.   Over a period of time mothers began to leave the house work and join the job market.  It is true that the double income took an easy jolt out of the finances, but unknown to us all we were not paying attention to the most important asset of all.....our children.  It happened over time and it happened over two or three generations, but it is now revealing to me that we are in a bad spot with the child and his development.  I realize that both parents have to, at times, work; but I am also looking at this from the eyes of a child, and the effects upon the family.  Not to mention that reincarnation is screaming for leadership because no one wants to come back without guidance.  There is no guidance for the latch key child.   The most important spiritual mission is to insure that we create a balanced child, spiritually, emotionally, and physically so that....guess what?  We can return and improve our journey or path in order to grow spiritually.  Folks we are headed for the cave again.   Many of us will incarnate into the mess that they created, and I for one do not care to re live this confusion.  No thanks.  Forward is better than backwards here. 

First is the fear of everything.  What happened to when you get home from school, with the concept of " go out and play" ?  This is not in the mind  set of our children.  They do not have any form of unorganized play in their mind set.  Rather, it is baseball practice, cheer leading, some sport that leads to a scholarship or a giant plaque or trophy.  Nothing like "capture the flag" or "kick the can".   This disappeared when the "strangers" entered our lives and lurched ready to capture a child.   So play became the video, the I pad, or some electronic device that teaches them how to kill everything in sight with no telling what kind of weapons of horror.  There are few children in the neighborhood learning how to interact with one another, get along.  We have all locked every child up so that he is now safe from harm.  The video is teaching them how to skill and mangle as we speak.  Just look at the video  games. 

Without having parents at home to observe they are left with the alternative role models to teach by their actions not their words.  Who are these role models?  Let's look at  (1) the movies (2) video games (3) nannies or baby sitting services,  (4) the family itself  What have we done?

Change vs. Truth

We all seem to hedge when telling the truth simply because we are afraid of making someone mad.  Of course, I am talking about truth as we know it  or truth that we practice.  Being truthful in looking at what we witness is often  very difficult  for all of us.  This  includes me as well.   However, the sooner all of us "bite the bullet" and confess being truthful, the pathway to spirituality begins to widen for us all. 

In 12 step work in which I participate, we are often told that when someone mentions something to us that produces anger, it is often the truth.  Human nature seems to want us to stay in the dark and deny those truths that we all do not wish to address.  Again, putting our "big boy pants on" and looking at what is creating anger kicks us slowly into a new reality of removing denial.  This is, for all of us a form of spiritual awakening.  Because the simple truth is that we will continue to repeat out mistakes until we learn to clean our own spiritual "house".   This simple change has opened my eyes into life and changed my whole outlook with not only others, but also myself.   To no longer harbor resentments that indeed create a form of disease is a certain promise of good health both physically, mentally, and spiritually. 

Working on the concept of boundaries such as addressing future problems up front with either a business partner or friend or lover  prevents a world of remedies rather than heart breaks.  This lesson for me, was an attempt at hurdling over future problems when discussing  new business ventures in order to prevent  possible problems.  Many times, I would tell myself that Id discuss that when it occurred.  But truthfully, I was by passing the discussion because I did not want to create discord that could lead to failure with this partnership.  We all do this game, but spiritually we will learn to address those issues that may be possible problems up front and proceed with  resolutions for both parties.  For Example, dividing money among business associates can get nasty and vicious, but usually it need not happen.  Once the "golden egg" has landed every one has a short term memory of how to divide the "pie".  Do I know what the outcome of this looks like.  Preventing future problems by truthful solutions early on prevents much hurt in the long run.  

Be Willing Make Better Choices

Being willing to be willing is one of the hardest concepts to recognize when I was working on change.   Of course the change that I am referring to is "spiritual change".   We can  become entangled within our own web of truths which sometimes are not true, but myths that live within our own reality.  Awakening to the truth and being able to recognize the "false truth" is not always easy.  I suggest at first you become willing to be willing to change and ask in your daily prayers that your guides give you some direction here.   Following is my example of my journey when dealing with falsehoods about myself and after quite a few years seizing the "bull by the horns" learning to make the choice to change my own behavior of erroneous behaviors that led to ill health. 

So, when I was about 13 years of age I injured my knee while ice skating.  Of course I was attempting that which I had no business doing, but isn't that always typical kid?   I was left with a torn ligament  and forced to be on crutches for about 8 weeks.  All went well, but I ignored the physical therapy part of the equation and like all teen agers used the excuse to get out of physical education at school to not exercise.  It worked and I used that little excuse for 50 some odd years.  I was even convinced that my knees were permanently damaged.  Then all "hell" broke loose with my health starting with an innocent jar of peanut butter landing on my right foot and breaking a bone.  Next was what is called the rotation cuff and using my right arm was impossible.   I begin to fret, and finally turned to prayer for guidance.  I was not going to use the medical profession as surgery for me can be dangerous at best and always not the best solution.  Not to mention that the whole insurance game in the United States is crazy at best.   So, I begin the search for chiropractic help.  Then the message came along with a great chiropractor that physical exercise would or could help the arm.   Not to mention that use of my legs was in such decline that I was unable to lift my body out of a simple chair.  This was a gloomy time for me.......But the awakening bells went off and I realized that this little lady here needed physical therapy and exercise in the worst way.   I could no longer face the falsehood that this was just the way it was,  I knew that the body could heal itself and I had ignored all of the signs.

I have recovered about 75% of the use of my arm and equally the pain has diminished about equally as well.  I can go sometimes all day without focusing on the pain.   I am amazed how my denial and the false "truth" that remained hung around me until I was ready.  This concept of false truth can remain with us for a lifetime until we are ready to make better choices.  Prayer plays an important part with all of this "mud bog" of denial.  When we ask for help it is always there and ready to serve us well.  Our spirit guides and yes we all have them are always around to assist us and keep us moving forward within the spiritual cycle of life.  To deny this "truth" that I use is possibly the biggest mistake that we all make.  We believe that "we" are the only beings and are totally alone in life.  Yes, we are alone, but think about it.......your spirit "guides" are always there for the asking. 

Why Change? New Energy/ New Age

  Most of us will ultimately accept that life is change.  Most will even argue that change can be exciting, and fun.  New age change is going to be at best a challenge for all of us.  Why?  Because we always think that it is okay for everyone else, but not us.   Sorry to say, but all of us are going to have to enjoy this ride.  And some of it is not going to be, " a piece of cake".   Change prepares us for the forthcoming events.  I am not sure of this one, but I am certain that this change is going to equal that of Atlantis and the changes that came from multitudes of disasters.  Okay, for those that are reading this little article you have already asked the question when?  My response to that answer is that none of us are to know.  Not even those who report that they do.  Part is for our protection, and the other part is that  it is Nature's big secret.   We will all  be where we are supposed to be when the time comes. 

 I can tell you only what I have been told.  The changes have already begun.   The changes are leading us to a totally different way of existence that we have never before thought about.  These changes are to put us in a much more agriculture or natural state of existence.  The knowledge is not going away, but how we treat others and what we value as important will totally bring us into harmony with nature, and a better and wiser understanding of  the God Energy. 

I am also sure of another change.  People will no longer use "white lies" or untruthful ways in order to communicate with one another.  It simply won't work.  Evidence of this has begun.  Check me out, but has it occurred to any of you that our political leaders are constantly being called out on their failure to not be truthful to the general public?  Of course, we are all described as the "little people".  I find that humorous as I am not little, nor am I ignorant.   I can figure out what is going on without some "trusted politician" trying to conjure up a method to deceive his constituents in order to qualify his or her existence in the political system.  You see,  everyone of us has the tendency to protect their "turf", and that even goes for the leaders or heads of state  of all of the countries.  None of these souls are in charge of the outcome of these events that will happen, and none has the power to stop the God energy. 

Now that I have given this little advice, I cannot say for sure how much time before the total change or total collapse.   My guess is enough for all of us to get our affairs in order and learn how to get along with one another.  This is an opportunity none other that I know of except to say that it is the opportunity to become promoted to a spiritual level unlike any other.   How to do this?  Clean us your own actions with your own bad habits, and  allow others to have their own beliefs, walk their own paths, and try not only getting along, but learning something from each other.   (This was the test of the different races which was to learn how to accept one another and not to harm each other simply because of a different way of celebrating our Higher Power)

Barter will become much more popular as well as healing our selves.  For each of us that have had challenges with health, myself included, we are all learning how to rely upon our own spiritual guides and make the choices necessary in order to heal.   This is difficult.  The body knows how to heal itself, but I will say it is not a 10 day process, sometimes the healing takes time.  Remember we stand on a tripod to maintain health which is a balance in spiritual, physical, and mental.  All three must coordinate so that good health prevents disease (dis ease)

Relationships either in business or sexual will become much easier and  life will be much happier for all.  We will revert to a more monogamous culture with sex, and learn to enjoy it as sex never was intended to be evil.  Multi partners are not particularly good as disease can spread rapidly.  Multiple partners is never healthy for any good relationship particularly in the idea of trust, and of course health. 

Women will become equal to men.  Of course, we have always been, but todays culture has just begun to recognize that the last several thousand years have been hard for women.  As we say, the energy is now about to shift. 

Home Life/ Chaos or Serenity

Most of young couples work, and as a result leave much of the house to a "no plan at all plan". 

I was a stay at home mom and now I proudly display the fact that I truly am the last of the home bodies protecting what we once called the nest.  I do not object to any of us working outside of the home.  But what we have created for the most part in this United States is a chaos gone rampant with the children.  This article is hoping to open your eyes up to the tidal wave that is forthcoming with this new generation. 

Often I am ask, "what is my destiny?"  and there they are with a family of 5 children.  The answer is fairly simple.  For now, it is to direct the children to a healthy way of living, teach them the spiritual laws, and  of course make the "nest" an  important environment for them to live.   Another way to state what I am trying to define here is teach your children how to fly and survive.   That is destiny for now in a nut shell.  It is difficult because even for me it was the hardest job ever.  Not difficult to do, but a nightmare of frustration on the mental games that went on in my own head.  For me, it was difficult to daily deal with a young mind, and not have adult inter action with other friends.  This, for me was the hardest task of all.  I loved my children, but I too needed a break from the,  "Captain Kangaroo sect".    And, like most of you, I too did not really want to hear that teaching our children was the most important job of all, why, this was too mundane, too simple,  I wanted the BIG PICTURE.   Sorry, learn to teach the truth, do the next right thing, treat others with kindness, understand the law of karma.  You do that and home life will become much easier. 

Now for the feng shui of it all.   For the majority of young Americans ( I can't speak for the rest of the world), but for us we are not paying attention to the home environment.    Usually young couples want to create good energy.  The simple truth is that the home is like that of a crystal.  It absorbs all of the thoughts that are created within the family.  Sooooo, if there is screaming, fighting, drinking, drugging within the house for the intuitive we feel the energy long before we enter the "twilight zone".   Children are very intuitive and it is amazing what they are able to endure in this land of chaos that exist all over the United States.   Not to mention the violent games, movies, and videos that they are all watching.  Where do you think that stuff goes?  I'll give you a hint, it goes to the nearest demented mind to recreate the same scene.   A thought is a thing.  Do not allow your children to live in such a chaotic nightmare that violence seems normal to them.  Stop the insanity now and save a life as well as a soul.    Once I attended a lecture given by the Dali Llama.  He was asked, "how do we stop the war?'.   His answer a simple one,   "Stop the war from within".   Teach this simple truth, and practice this truth and oh my, " Peace on Earth Good Will Toward Men".